Today, society demands that couples work in an “almost perfect”. Although divorce or separation are increasingly common, the ideal of stable and lasting family is not lost, though all recognize that it is very difficult to achieve. The couples must respond to many emotional requirements that did not exist.
Many couples work in different places. More than eight hours away from home, five days a week. A world of perceptions, moods, tensions, experiences, relationships with third … Many days it happens that the face of returning home is very different from what had to wake up to heat the home. Many hours, many without sharing life. Only communication, sincerity, trust and support capabilities will not allow the absence from work becomes a problem.
Travel, absences, distance
Also the work or other reasons may impose travel distance and long absences in between. The couple has no access to reaffirm its commitment to return to daily work. It is an “even harder.” The solution must pass through greater communication (phone calls, talking a lot, build on ongoing details, attention …), and above all sincerity, trust and support. The couple must make an effort to share what happens outside the home: the aspirations, frustrations, successes, anger, etc.
Trust is a cornerstone of family life. If there is no trust many problems will be insoluble in the common life. One of the most typical of the lack of trust with jealousy. But not alone. Mistrust can lead to demeaning attitudes for couples, also helps foster a negative image, low self-esteem, etc. Mistrust undermines support, communication and compromise other two pillars important to the long life of the couple.
Today it seems that infidelity is a low value. However, today also break records every year in breaks for couples. INE recently picked up the couples (marriage) who had broken (off) after their first year had grown by 325% in just twelve months. One thing is to adopt liberal and permissive attitudes and quite another in practice tolerated and mix well with infidelity. If you want to destroy a partner is unfaithful, or even misguided enough to adopt attitudes: excessive kindness, trust and confidentiality with a third … Some couples do not recognize that these things will feel worse, they accumulate and generate mistrust, negativity, introversion, lack of communication … The couple, in practice, often demanding and demanding and not admitting to the relationship can take on a roads full of turbulence and risk.
Perhaps there can be no happy couples have sex role. Do not fall into the temptation to exaggerate sex. The couple progresses over time and with it’s own sex. However, a sexual relationship alive, imaginative, intense, vibrant … will be a great “insurance” to withstand and cope with other problems (family, work, etc.).. So if you want good advice for overcoming problems here goes: Have your sex life rekindle the enthusiasm and mutual interest, which is a way to convey harmony, desire, love and sealing of the junction that defines an accomplice to a single partner . Make love, not war. And do it with the passion he did when he began to walk. If you miss the good sex, may have fired a good ally to the health of the couple and for the solution of many problems.