The silences are uncomfortable and when the girl we are talking we just know, think we’re bored and have nothing to comment, also think that you are someone who talks a lot because they raise issues or know where to start.
But the silences are not always against, sometimes it’s better to have them intentionally to create some suspense and intrigue.
For those times when you feel you lost the spark of the conversation or predict what you’re talking about will come to an end soon and do not know how to follow it, because here I give you a few questions with which you can create new topics of conversation without seeming you’re forcing things, especially when you first meet a girl, are questions that avoid monosyllabic answers as yes / no.
What is the story of your life?
What have you done today?
How do you feel about ……?
I have no idea how to learn to do that … You show me?
What do you think about ….?
Which option you can think of if you ….?
What did you like most of ….?
What if ….?
Avoid closed questions such as:
Are you studying?
Did you like that ….?
A. Are you willing …?
Listen to music?
The trick is to ask questions of the type which, what or how. Ask open questions where the person to think and analyze will make you an answer with substance and depending on that answer you can generate more conversation topics.
In this conversation I told a little lie, no matter if that was not the profession that I liked more small but serves as an anchor to generate new topics for conversation. That little lie if discovered after not going to leave, is to be forgotten, women rarely remember the words of men, they remember emotions. I do not mean to imply that you have to be a liar, you just have to learn to see the extent of that failure, a serious lie would for example “I have a lot of money” when you work just to eat.
Nor is there very common to ask questions, you should also make her ask you questions and you do it when the conversation does not give accurate data when you say so hidden and speak only superficial, for example in the previous conversation did not mention what circumstances did not allow study architecture, then that cause some curious and could ask her about it.