If you’ve finally managed to arrange a special outing with someone you like, the first thing to consider is how to make something so good that trip, he or she wants to see you again on a second occasion.
Have a backup plan. If you were going to the beach, the weather can change, the place where you were going may be closed for refurbishment, including tickets to a concert does not always allow you to access it .. For all these reasons and many more … is very useful to have an alternative plan in mind, if your date takes an unexpected turn.
Plan a short quotation. Start with a simple 1-2 hour appointment. If things go well, you can always extend the meeting time. However, there is nothing worse than a full day of scheduled appointment and five minutes to realize that there is no future ahead.
Be punctual. There is no greater sign of disrespect (or interest) to be late on your first date. Get directions with time, arrive early and show your date that you care about him or her and the plans they have done.
Dress appropriately. If you have an appointment to go to a site something special … speak sympathetically about the dress code is going to take your partner. To agree (or deploy warn him how you’re going to go.) There is nothing more embarrassing if one comes in formal attire and the other in jeans.
Your compliments, but do not overdo it. A few kind words make everyone feel special, but persistent comments about the appearance of the other person, body, personality, etc. are old and may seem desperate …
Do not get in the drink … A few drinks may help reduce the tension of the appointment, but do not think you’re in a party of former colleagues … Drinking too much is likely to draw out aspects of your personality unattractive and not help you on your chances.
Keep a balance between talking and listening. Pay attention to the amount of time you spend you spend talking versus listening. If you stray in a direction which is the hearing ..
Do not talk about past love experiences. Things like “my ex loved this or that ..” Show uncertainty and lack of tact. Procrastinate deep conversations. Our advice is do not talk on your first date sex, religion, politics, heartbreak, personal problems … The aim is that the other is a good time. And making people laugh at your buddy a lot. Design a plan to have fun and be merry. The depths of life and will come gradually.
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